Thursday, January 24, 2013

its OK..

 
its ok that I havent been to the gym or tried to eat healthy in over 4 months. (because I am starting again...and going to try to stick with it)
 
its ok that I start again alot...at least I start.
 
its ok that I have watched this movie
 
5,978,604 times since it came out on blue ray a few weeks ago. It makes me happy.
 
Its ok that I havent washed my hair in 4 days. It still looks cute, and we all know thats all that matters.
 
Its ok that I cant stand it when people chew with their mouth open. its gross. so stop it.
 
Its ok that I cant spell half the time, and my grammar sucks, and I dont know how to use punctuation correctly. I know you dont judge. Wait, of course you do. But...I dont care!
 
Its ok that sometimes when I tell the mister I love him he says "thats nice" because I know that he loves me too.
 
Its ok that I am addicted to etsy and groopdealz.

Its ok that I have bieber fever.

 

Just kidding. BUT i am excited that I bought tickets to take my daughters to see him in vegas when we are there this summer! I am not telling them until the night of the concert. They are gonna DIE!!  

Its ok that I am not perfect. Because being perfect or trying to be perfect....would suck. And so would this blog.
 

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Conspiracy theory...

After coming home and entering my dinner (from red lobster) into my fitness pal...
 
Me: "hey babe...we ate waaaayyy too many calories at dinner!"
Him: "whatever...all we had was shrimp!"
Me: "actually you had like 8 biscuits too"
Him: "those don't count!"
Me: (after calculating it) "well...those 8 biscuits were 1,004 calories!"
Him: "that thing lies. Dont listen to the lies! What a piece of crap!"
Me: "I'm gonna look up your favorite burger and see how many calories it has...ok, see your sourdough jack has a ton of calories...and you eat like 3 of them!"
Him: "well that's because no man can get full on 1 sourdough jack"
Me: "babe...im sure there are guys who can eat just one, and be full!"
Him: "yes, there is one man. His his name is richard simmons...and hes like 4 foot tall and weighs 80 pounds. Do i look like richard simmons to you?"
Me: "nope!"
Him: "ok then...stop telling me about calories. If I counted calories like you do, I would die from lack of food. And I couldnt eat ANYTHING!!! Its all a conspiracy theory anyways."
 
And there you have it.
 
Calories are just a conspiracy theory.
 
And richard simmons is the ONLY MAN in the world that can get full off 1 sourdough jack sammich.

 
(PS...he is SUPER supportive to me with the healthy eating stuff....but he is also SUPER sarcastic. If you couldnt tell ;) )

if only.

Yesterday, someone told me this:
 
Them: "have you lost weight?"
Me: "no, not really...I havent been to gym in almost 4 months"
Them: "oh...well you look like you have lost weight, it must be your outfit. You know...you are already almost pretty. I mean, your face is gorgeous...if you could only start losing weight you could be a knock out!"
Me: (with tears starting to well up) "thanks?!?"
 
Then I got in my car and cried. UGGGHHHH. I HATE it when people who I dont even know that well, make comments about my weight. Especially when they talk about how cute I would be if I was skinny. If you have read this post you know how much I hate the..."you have such a pretty face" comment.
 
Little does that lady know that I had already felt like a big ol' wilderbeast that day. So her comment just made it worse.
 
I mean, I know that I eat wrong, I dont work out and I am 86 pounds overweight. But hey lady...its NOT YOUR PLACE TO TELL ME ABOUT IT. MMMM kay?
 
So...last night I went back to the gym..I started logging my food again in fitness pal...and I am going to start trying to be healthy again. Not because of that persons comments. But because I need to be healthy.
 
In other news...the misters new favorite phrase "I'm not a playa, I just crush a lot". For real...he beats me in scrabble he says "YEAH..Im not a playa I just crush a lot"....he proves me wrong in a meaningless argument "Oh yeah..I'm not a playa I just crush a lot".
 
 He's insane.
 
But hes pretty hot..so I can deal with the gangsta talk.
Happy Hump day....raise yo hand in the ay-er if you a true play-er......

Monday, January 21, 2013

Meet this fabulous lady..NOW!

I have been SO super blessed in the short time that I have been blogging to meet some fabulous ladies that share my passion for Jesus...loving others and loving life. Danette is one of those women.
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 She is kind, beautiful, loving, and compassionate....I know that she blesses EVERYONE around her. And I am thankful for her blog. If you dont know her...check her out ASAP at All my Love for all my days .
All My Love for All My Days
I just wanted to give you a peek into who she is....so here is just a teaser into the amazing life giving person she is...but if you wanna know more..you gotta check out her blog!!!!!
 
Why do you blog?
I'm something of an accidental blogger. I started blogging to just express myself. I didn't know anything about the blogging community. I started exploring and decided that I really liked being a blogger. I could write what I want. Blogging gave me a voice to do what I love to do...share love.
If you could do ANYTHING for 1 week, what would it be?
 
This will seem superficial I know, but I'd like to try to be an actress. I think I just want to see if I could do it. I know I could do the acting, but I'd like to see if I could keep my head and my faith with all the lights and makeup.

what is your favorite bible verse, and why?
 
I have several favorite verses, but the one I always come back to is Psalm 51:10, "Create in me a clean heart, O God. And renew a loyal spirit in me."
 
 
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Sunday, January 20, 2013

Lets talk about being broke.

I am about to write a post about being broke. get ready for it.
 
6 years ago the mister decided that he wanted to go back to school to get his Bachelors degree. Ok.. no big..right?!? Well, lets see...4 kids, a high maintenance wife, a full time job for him, a full time job for me...AND SCHOOL? We knew we could do it.
And we did.
 He graduated in 4 years and had high honors. Now he has an amazing job...and we are doing better than ever.
But when he was in school money was SO tight. If you have ever been in college or have had someone in your family go to college you know that its expensive. But the cost that surprised me the most EVERY SINGLE semester? BOOKS!!! How can you be serious that a text book talking about history or math or sciences or something else silly completely needed...costs $200 bucks!!!!! When I was in college my parents paid for my books so I never thought twice about it. But this time around we had to pay for it ourselves. The first year we just bought all of the books from the campus bookstore. The total was $636 FOR BOOKS!!! Holy Moly...I just had a heart murmur thinking about it.
 
But the SECOND year I wised up and we RENTED his books. From a fabulous online site...like Campus Book Rentals (dot) com !
 
I saved almost 80% on his books. And this wife was a happy wife. And we know that happy wife equals happy life!
 
It was SUPER easy. I just took his list, went online entered the titles and found them in seconds! I received the books in 6 days, and they were in awesome condition. He could highlight in them, just like they were his own, and when the semester was over, I just stuck them into a PRE PAID envelope and sent them back!! It was EASY PEASY...and it saved us money.
 
PLUS...ya'll know that I love to help people..and campusbookrentals.com gives backs. A portion of every single book rented goes to Operation Smile...Their Cause: Operation Smile provides free surgeries to repair cleft lip, cleft palate and other facial deformities for children around the globe.
 
How fab is that? YOU save money AND you help change a child's life. Pretty legit, huh!?!
 
Here is a little clip of how campus book rentals process works so you can see just how easy it is!
 
 
 
You can find A book that you might need... just by searching by title or author or a few other options...
 
Ok...so there you go...being in college means being broke. BUT you can save money in BIG ways by renting your books instead of buying them.
 
Save a little lettuce to support your shoe fetish...fergie style.
 
Uh huh...I just quoted fergie. Your welcome.
 
Stay Glamorous...and rent your books instead of buying them!!!!!

40 years.

I had the honor of being asked to speak to a church body today about the Sanctity of Human life. This was the first version of my message, and I wanted to share it with you. Its a pretty strong message...but its what I believe and what I stand for.

I am the development director for Life choices clinic in Lewiston. My job is to create relationships with people in our community and to build awareness of what we do. Many of you might not know what we do….we used to be known as the Crisis pregnancy clinic…now we are known as life choices, and our goal is to save babies, help moms, and break cycles. I want to tell you about all of the wonderful things that God is doing at Life choices…but first I want to tell you why I am here on THIS day.

Well today seems like any normal day…we all got up…got dressed…some of us ate breakfast, some of us drank coffee….but I would be willing to bet that not very many of us knew that today was an anniversary. Not the kind of anniversary that you want to celebrate though. Today is the 40th anniversary of the Roe vs. Wade decision. Since 1983 there have been over 54 MILLION babies aborted.

54 million.
Let me give you a comparison….in our history of war there has been an estimated 1,043,569 American war deaths…

Gulf War  458
Vietnam War 58,151
Korean War 54,246
WW II 407,316
WW I 116,708
Civil War 498,332
Revol. War 25,324
Total War Deaths 1,043,569
The total deaths of Jews during the holocaust is around 6 million. The holocaust was a horrible HORRIBLE time in history. Many people lost loved ones and many people lost their lives because of a decision that one person made.
 
So in comparison to ALL of the American deaths from war and all of the Jews killed during the Holocaust....the numbers of babies aborted since 1986 is still about 7 TIMES that number. No flags flown at half staff...no tears from the president...no gun salute. Just 54 Million babies...gone.
Today…in our little area…in the LC valley…in our backyard every three days a baby dies because of a decision that 1 person makes. And in the US...1.5 million babies die every single year..because of a decision that one person makes.
There is an abortion every 3 days performed on a women from the LC valley. But that doesn’t even include the number of plan b pills taken, or the number of RU486 pills taken. Our society tells us that its ok to cover up a mistake, and get rid of a problem with a pill or a procedure. Its scary. And the worst part of all of this is that its scary for the women who are making these choices.

Women walk through our doors…but not just the women that you are thinking…its not just the 17 year old who slept with her high school boyfriend and ended up pregnant. It’s the 37 year old married woman who has 3 kids, a good job, a loving husband, and a wonderful home life. It’s the 22 year old whos husband was just sent out on active duty overseas. It could be the women sitting in front of you or beside you. The fact is…1 out of every 3 women that come see us claim to be Christians. But think that abortion is their only choice…they think that their parents will kill them, their husband will leave them, their boyfriend will break up with them, their family will disown them, their friends will think they are a slut. The list goes on and on. They are hearing ALL of the voices around them telling them that abortion is the only choice. The choice to cover up their mistake, make their life easier, or hide a secret.
But abortion doesn’t do ANY of those things. It destroys families, it crushes dreams, it creates cycles of destruction, and it breaks up relationships.

The good news about this…yes…there is good news. The good news is that Life choices clinic and other centers like us exist to help these women. We break through the lies, deception and death of this world…to show them the life truth and hope of Jesus Christ. We let them talk, with out judgement. We let them have a voice. We help them heal. We save babies, help moms and break cycles.
 
We want this place, this Valley…to be a place of Life, a place of hope…and a place of Truth. And God is doing it…in 2011 we saved 100 babies…and in 2012 we saved 140 babies. That means that 140 women made a choice for life AFTER coming to Life choices Clinic. All of those babies were in danger of being aborted. 1 out of every 6 babies born at St joes is born because their mom came to life choices. We are making a difference. Yes it has been 40 years of death. 54 million babies gone. 54 million lawyers, doctors, scientists, coaches, teachers, singers, dancers, moms, dads, aunts uncles. But we have something that the enemy doesn’t. We have God, and we have HIS strength, HIS mercy and HIS love. We are making a difference in this place.

It starts with you..its starts with the church…with the parents...talking to our kids about sex, about good decisions and healthy relationships. Talking with them about abortion. Its scary, but I know it would be better coming from you, then from us when they come into our center for a pregnancy test.
 Imagine what your life would be like with out your children…without your grandchildren. Without their smiles and laughter. Without their hugs and kisses. All those drawings and paintings stuck on your refrigerator…Imagine them gone.

So many women have a refrigerator with nothing on it…and a heart that is broken because they thought that abortion was the only answer. Its is our time to help them, and to help their hearts.

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Bad Habits and a GIVEAWAY!!


 
Hello lovelies! I hope you all had a FABULOUS weekend! I did...and its not even over yet! But more on that later...I am SO excited about this lovely lady you are about to meet. She is fabulous and sweet...She is funny...she loves her family...and she is GIVING YOU a $20 GIFT CARD TO SEPHORA!!!!! I am SO glad she decided to show Lawless Life a little love by showing up on my sidebar! So.....here she is...Alexandria!
 
 
(PS..isnt she gorgeous??)
 
I am so excited to be guest blogging for Heather on her lovely space on the I-net! Thanks so much for having me Heather!  My Name is Alexandria and I blog over at Sweet Tea, Love & Grace! Sit down , relax, grab some sweet tea and stay awhile! Let's Chat about...

Bad Habits.....Come on we all have the! You know nail biting, leaving drawers open, and what my husband is infamous for, taking out the trash but not putting a new trash bag in the trash can ( I'm not bitter at all :) )

My bad habit is being too controlling, I am a psychotic about control. I have that " It wont get done unless, I do it myself "attitude, I prefer not to delegate because I find satisfaction in doing it all and knowing it is done correctly and they way I would like it to be done.

Now in reality and in "my over thinking about overthinging" mind this is perfectly normal. Reality then decides to backhand me in the face( baby powder and all) . It isn't possible for me to do everything. I really struggle & have a hard time delegating. When the house isnt clean, laundry isnt done, food isn't on the table, diaper bag isnt packed, bills paid ,car washed It falls on me , simply because I cant let my AMAZING husband step in. ( I mean he does it anyway) , but it's typically not done the way I would like it to be done , which isnt a problem is you aren't me.

This "control habit" I have is bad, seriously. Sometimes, I even tell my mother how to take care of my child, I mean I think it's okay to be particular about certain things. BUT Geez , I need to CHILL, she did raise 3 kids. We came out Normal ...well for the most part :)

Instead of being appreciative like normals wives or daughters , I re-do or criticize what he or she has done, and tell myself that I should have done it  to begin with.

I am so thankful to have a husband by my side who is a God Fearing,Kind hearted, Strong man  who doesnt mind doing Laundry ( even though he can't fold to save his life- Love You Honey)  or waking up in the middle of the night when Aria thinks it's playtime , so I can get some more rest.

My challenge is to let go a little bit, delegate better so I can be a better mom & wife!

Oh Goodness Pray for me ya'll!
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Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Free muffaletta with every room...

Have you ever stayed at a Sheraton Hotel? We always stay at the Sheraton downtown when we come to Seattle...the staff is fabulous and the hotel is GORGEOUS..and the beds are perfect. But.....Did you know that you get a free muffaletta with every room?
 
When we checked into our hotel in Seattle tonight, the Mister was checking things out in the bathroom and this is what followed:
Mister: babe...look at this! Its a free muffaletta!
Me: Huh?
Mister: (He comes out holding this)
 
A free muffaletta!
Me: (falling over laughing) Babe...a Muffaletta is a sandwich...
Mister: I know..I was kidding...its called a bath moofa...right? (looking completely serious)
Me: (laughing EVEN harder now) No honey...its called a LOOFAH!
Mister: Oh...well whatever it is...its free...
 
 
I havent laughed so hard in a LONG time!
 
Moving along....
 
If you havent guessed the mister and I are on a mini vacay until Saturday...I am going to market for the store that I buy for, and he is going to carry my bags spend quality time with me. Its going to be nice to have a weekend just for the two of us!
 
Tonight we had dinner here
 
 
 
It was our first time eating at a Ruth's Chris and we were so excited. To be honest...the service sucked...the food was just par..and we were really let down :(  Sucks when you pay so much for dinner and its not even close to what you were expecting...Oh well...at least I looked cute for dinner!
 
Photo: Dinner with my love at Ruth's Chris!
 
Happy Hump day kittens!

Sunday, January 13, 2013

thats a bunch of bull...

Today I was driving in the car with my 14 year old step daughter...there were some of these
 
 
fighting with their heads together in a field. This is the conversation that followed...
 
Me: Look meg..those cows are fighting..thats crazy
Meg: Cows dont fight, only steers or bulls fight
Me: Whatever...those were cows...and they were fighting
Meg: No...they had to have either been a bull or a steer, because cows or heifers dont fight.
Me: uhh..whats the difference?
Meg: well, Cows are females that have had a calf and a heifer is a female that has not had a calf and steers are males that have been castrated, bulls are males that have not been castrated.
Me: Oh...I didnt know that. So they were bulls? What do you think they were fighting over?
Meg: Probably a cow...
Me: She must be a pretty hot cow!
Meg: Yep...
Me: How did you get so smart?
Meg: I pay attention in school....
Me: Oh...maybe I should have payed more attention in school
Meg: Yeah, probably
 
HA! I got told!
 
Happy Saturday my little cows! May a bull always be ready to fight for you!